Each of us lives from particular patterns in life. We sleep in the same spot on the bed, eat the same meals weekly, drink from the same cup, go to sleep and get up at approximately the same time. These patterns go on and on.
We also live with patterns that produce the confusion in our lives. Although some of the situations are different, the patterns and stress are very similar. For instance, a person with money problems lives a life pattern of money problems.
Since the outcomes of our lives are based upon the results of our patterns, if people want something different to occur in life, they need to change their patterns.
It may seem that life, finances, relationships, and health are completely out of your control, the reality is, your patterns will predetermine what you can expect.
If an individual would like to improve their finances, this person needs to change the money pattern that is producing financial strain to producing financial abundance.
If an individual would like to improve their health, this person needs to change the health pattern from producing dis-ease to producing vibrancy and health.
If someone has the desire to improve or start a relationship, this person needs to change the love pattern from producing self centered love to producing harmony with another.
What patterns are you producing in life? Are these patterns in line with what you want or are they producing more of what you don’t want? As I mentioned, most people want one thing but they are living their lives with contradicting patterns to their desire.
Identify want you want and change your patterns to align with your desire.
You will be amazed at how quickly your desires will manifest when you make the necessary corrections to our life patterns.
The “secret” that any successful person will gladly share with you is that if you do not change the way you are doing things, you will only produce more of what you have already gotten up to this point in life.
We know that change is not comfortable. Many people live in a pattern of misery instead of making the necessary changes to create the life of their dreams.
When we change something, it takes self discipline to say, “I’m no longer living my life or handling my personal matters that way.” This self discipline is what many people seek yet avoid implementing. They read books, attend seminars, and have good intentions, only to find in the end, they avoid the implementation process of change.
By answering the following is a good exercise to sink this point deep into your Mental Coding:
1. Are you willing to “pay the price” and make these life pattern changes?
2. What changes would be required of you to make this happen?
3. What do you want in life right now?
4. When will you make these changes? Be realistic and honest with yourself here. Make this statement only if you are willing to back it up once-and-for-all.
Stefan Rudolph (the famous German actor) said it perfectly, “Once failure lead to change…change will then lead toward success.”
As you change, refuse to look at your changes as losing anything. Human beings never like to lose anything. Instead, concentrate on what you’re gaining. A person who goes on a diet to lose weight has a much harder struggle than a person who changes patterns to gain better health.
Now you’re one step closer to upgrading your life to the next level.
Sincerely,
Dr. Michael J. Duckett
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